Gay Love & Romance

It's all in my mind  The world of days gone by Bloody sunrise in your eyes  I'm blinded. I realize  You're not a fantasy  It's all in my mind  What we used to do  Back when you loved me And I loved you In a clandestine sort of way So many poems  So many songs Artifacts of history  Our love cannot be wrong  I'm so happy you're my reality  The world of days gone by  I see them in your eyes  All my dreams came true At last when I met you  Still standing by my side.

Straight actor plays a gay role. The in-depth discussion reveals strange realities.  (A) Theater & Hollywood are full of gay people. Yet somehow only straight people can be found for gay roles. James Sutton is to be commended for not expressing contempt at gay men. (B) Nostalgia for the bad times of the past. The narrative is that gay life has improved since 2007 when John Paul kissed Craig. That's a false narrative. The gay & lesbian community (LG) now includes straight people (BTQ+). So straights have taken over gay spaces & diluted their gayness. Gay bars have disappeared since European countries became Muslim. Gay life is more dangerous than ever. And straight people don't understand. They don't feel it. Also many political gays are blinded to the everyday reality of gay people. First kiss John Paul & Craig 2007.

PECKER (1998) introduced America to "tea-bagging". And Baltimore. All the gay strippers are straight. "No mom. I'm not gay. The gays blow me."

Interview with a Ukrainian "fixer" — a trip planner & escort for foreign journalists who visit. How has LGBT life changed since the war? Gays are more visible in the armed forces as they joined for (a) national defense, and (b) the Russian rhetoric is more anti-gay. Still your domestic partner has no hospital visitation rights.  The fixer tells the story of a gay prisoner-of-war captured in Russian-occupied territory. He was tortured & sexually assaulted, not to extract intelligence, but for the joy of making someone suffer. He was freed after two months when friendly forces liberated the prison. The geopolitics are changing rapidly. The USA President is the most gay-friendly ever. Of course Ukraine President Zelensky once played piano with his penis. Europe is turning against Ukraine by purchasing Russian gas. Europe is turning against the LGBT as Christian countries become Muslim.

Strange phenomenon. Digital creators, who appeal to gay customers, want everybody to know they're not gay. Okay. But they can't shut up about it. Problem is women don't pay for online thirst traps. I used to frequent a store where the cashier made fun of me for paying the high prices. I quit going to that store.

You (Aaron Eckhart) are in a rut. Your wife is cheating on you. You publicly assault her lover. You move out & in with your brother, a former celebrity high school football player who is married to a man. His husband helps you in "upgrading the package". You need a makeover. You start swimming laps again. You shave your body. Buy new clothes. Meanwhile you mentor a high school student. He & his friends help you get your wife back. You've only ever had sex with one person—your wife. Until you "smoke chronic" at a tent party in your brother's backyard. You get lucky with a co-ed. Eventually you get your beautiful wife back. But it's too late. You don't trust her anymore. Your body is no longer attracted to her. So you move on. "Meet Bill" on YouTube. Age-restricted for a few profanities, sexual situations & drug use.

Times change. Feelings engage  These are the good ole days I remember when I was lonely  At home alone Those days have come & gone Now my heart has company  When you're far away  Both our hearts are gay Somehow connected through space Times change. Feelings too Ever more in love with you  I remember how we met When could I ever forget  Alone but not lonely  When you're far from home Our two hearts are gay  Somehow connected through space  Times change. I'm still with you  THESE ... are the good ole days!

Dad: What gives you a boner? Son: I'm 17. Everything gives me a boner. Your mom means well. She thinks you're gay. You think so too. Until mom steals your identity & applies for an LGBT scholarship to pay for your college. Now the entire school thinks you're gay. And straight girls are suddenly super-attracted to you. So you start to doubt your gayness. You're a virgin. So you don't really know. Lucky for you, bi-questioning counts as gay. "Helicopter Mom" (2014) on Tubi & other platforms. TV-14.

Keven is a favorite of this blog. He found a quality hookup online—not DL but closeted to his family. Dating was hot & heavy for a while. Then things got quiet. Worry it might be over. Rough patch. They talked it out in a mature way. Hopefully this guy is the one. Take it slow