Why do gays hate being gay?

You should write a book. Also, in my humble opinion, you misunderstand men. What's the #1 fetish in the world? BDSM....to be punished for doing or being wrong (gay). Humiliation is nonviolent punishment. My partner wants this. But wait. What's the #2 fetish? To be punished by someone you trust completely.

Men are angry, in a rage. Because anger comes from fear. Fear of being punished by people who hate you. Or gay-bashed. Guys love you before sex & want to kill you afterwards. Because they feel they can't control their homosexual urges. They don't like themselves because they don't trust themselves. 

Yo. My bf is married. He's my part-time lover. I don't begrudge him his family. But we communicate well. Like teasing each other? Why? To hurt his feelings. Why? Stop saying mean things. I accept what he offers. I can also start dating someone else & move on. So it goes for twenty years. 

Good luck. I'm gonna share this vid to my blog. I review gay movies & write gay content. Insights into the gay psyche. Guys just wanna be loved. But they can't trust themselves.



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