Delete the App

I can tell you exactly what happened. You ever flirt at a gay bar & the dude keeps looking over your shoulder at who walks in the door? When you chat, sometimes the guy responds right away. Sometimes minutes go by. Because some other hottie has messaged. 

Same with you. At some point he met someone better. First indication was him suddenly not looking for serious. He ghosted you to avoid being cussed out by you. It's common courtesy to say you're not interested anymore......and be screamed at for rejection. ♥️ 

I lasted on Grindr for 20 days. When I joined, a guy chatted me up. We were gonna meet in a few hours. He ghosted me. Then a few days later he messaged me like we had no history. Maybe he was drunk or on drugs. 

Then I stumbled on a gay cruisey parking lot. No problem meeting hot guys, conversation, sex. Why do we waste time online? Real guys are looking to meet real guys in real life? Maybe it's an age thing. 

When you get older, you have more sex in the daytime. Your social skills you learned 40 years ago sure do come in handy. You might meet your soulmate daytime-cruising. I did. Good luck Keven.