Sexual injury or std?

Caution. Sensitive explicit content. 

Is it sexual injury or std? Sometimes it's hard to tell. In this case it was a friction "sore" & soreness. Like rug burn on your knees you notice only after sex. Like chafing when wet clothing rubs against your skin. Like a blister when the shoe rubs against your foot. 

In this case it was my penis rubbing against his anus. I take full responsibility. I was too rough & didn't follow our LUBE safety protocol. Yes we have one. 

Step 1. Lube it with ky. Stick it in slowly. Lube is instantly absorbed. Step 2. Re Lube. You can stay in a little longer. Step 3. Re-Lube including the tip. Now you can go a couple minutes more firmly. Unless you're a sex athlete in a porno, you & your bottom can't last until Step 4 staying moist.

Think about the water-based lube. When it dries out, it's sticky. Imagine your bottom's  inside is sticky as you penetrate. He said these words "You hurt me". I'm so moved that I'm writing this post.

He said he felt it the next day. It has healed up. No big deal. He walked away from me then came back & we talked. It's been 6 days. 6 days he's been wondering if it's an std. When we met 19 years ago, I brought a curable std to the relationship. I had to be a man for the first time in my life. Since then we've gone to the clinic several times together & separately.

One time he had a sexual injury he thought was an std. Another friction blister got infected. Clinic all negative. We stood in the parking lot. My finger touched his. I said, whatever you had was real. I will never dismiss you. I'm here for the long haul.

But he dismisses himself. He keeps his feelings bottled up. It takes time for him to articulate his feelings. Whereas I talk easily but often get corrected.

We have other safety protocols. Like no fingering because scratchy fingernails & calluses. You can guess. Hemorrhoids. We've both had this injury. We're getting older & more fragile. But no less horny.

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